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Accepting Anxiety - CALM Series for Anxiety

Accepting Anxiety - CALM Series for Anxiety

Accepting Anxiety involves a paradoxical approach of allowing anxiety to come and go without resistance or reactivity. By embracing anxiety rather than trying to suppress it, you can teach your brain that there is no imminent danger. This calm and nonreactive message introduces a unique form of safety learning that works to counterintuitively soothe your anxiety. This blog post will explore the steps to accept anxiety and the benefits.

Accepting Anxiety refers to set of techniques aimed at embracing and managing anxiety in a healthier way. Rather than resisting or fighting against anxiety, we are encouraged to acknowledge its presence, observe it without judgment, and continue activities according to their values. This approach involves changing your relationship with anxiety, living in the present moment, welcoming anxiety sensations, and learning to tolerate uncertainty.

Concepts and techniques associated with accepting anxiety:

Changing Your Relationship with Anxiety:  Shift your perspective from anxiety being an enemy to viewing it as a natural part of your experience. Welcome and embrace anxiety as a bodily sensation that you can coexist with. Recognize that trying too hard to avoid or eliminate anxiety can intensify it.

Living in the Present Moment:  Anxiety often arises from worrying about the future or ruminating on the past. Ground yourself in the present moment, evaluating whether the current situation is as distressing as your anxious thoughts suggest.

Welcoming Anxiety Sensations:  Paradoxically, inviting anxiety sensations and even asking for more of them can diminish their impact.  When you willingly experience anxiety sensations, your brain realizes that these sensations are not dangerous, reducing the fight-or-flight response.

Tolerating Uncertainty:  Recognize life inherently involves uncertainty, and not everything can be controlled.  Engage in exercises that help you tolerate the discomfort of not knowing or having definitive answers.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): Encourages living in accordance with your values despite the presence of anxiety. Accept that anxiety is a natural aspect of life and that you can choose to act in alignment with your values regardless of its presence.

Coexisting with Anxiety: Visualize carrying anxiety with you, acknowledging its presence, and committing to your values and goals despite it. This technique helps diminish the fear associated with anxiety by accepting it as part of the journey.

Practicing Self-Compassion:  Be kind and compassionate toward yourself when anxiety arises. Understand that having difficult days is a natural part of the human experience, and it's okay to show yourself love and care during those times.

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 Benefits of Accepting Anxiety:

  • Reduced Intensity: By welcoming anxiety, its intensity can decrease over time.
  • Enhanced Emotional Regulation: Embracing anxiety without judgment helps regulate emotional responses.
  • Lower Avoidance Behavior: Acceptance decreases the need to avoid situations that trigger anxiety.
  • Improved Quality of Life: Practicing acceptance can lead to a more fulfilling life even in the presence of anxiety.

The acceptance-based approach to anxiety acknowledges that anxiety is a normal part of human experience and emphasizes building a healthier relationship with it. Rather than trying to eliminate anxiety entirely, the focus is on managing and reducing its impact while continuing to live a meaningful life.

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